What to Know Before You Update

“You Have a New Update Available for Your Phone”

Uggh. Have you ever installed an update only to discover new problems you now have to live with until the next update? Would waiting a few days have saved you time in the long run?

Rumor has it that a new update is coming for iPhone users, and those of us who have the iPhone 6, SE, or iPad mini may not be very happy about it. You can read more about it at MacWorld or by clicking here.

Here's what used to happen in my home: 

My husband would update his phone as soon as it became available because he didn’t like those “update” messages popping up every day. Then he'd get frustrated because changes were made to his phone. So I'd go into his phone's settings to try to solve the problem but sometimes I'd just have to admit, “Sorry, but you're going to have to live with it for a while.”

On the other hand, my phone’s memory was usually so full that no update could be installed until I either removed a large app like Facebook or deleted some music. So while I was waiting to clear up some memory, my husband and many others had moved on to dealing with the problems caused by their recent updates. 

Should we wait to install an update? Here’s my two cents…

It depends on the reason for the update.

If you hear that there is a major security breach and updating will keep you safer, update immediately. No question. Many updates help our phones stay safe from the latest hacks. In fact, the Federal Communications Commission has a page that tells how important it is to keep your phone's operating system up to date.

Any other time, though, I'll usually wait 5-10 days. This gives others a chance to install the update, find the bugs, and report them. The company then repairs the bugs and sends out a “fix” in a new update. Apple is pretty good about having the fix available within two weeks.

How do you know when the fixed update is available? Look for the update number with an extension. So update 12.2 becomes 12.2.1.

Another way to make sure you are updating the fixed version is to look at the date and description. It’ll usually say something like “This update fixes problems with a recent update.”

What to do in the meantime about those pesky pop-up reminders? 

I just click on “Remind me later” and figure the seconds it takes to touch my screen beats the constant frustration of having my phone bugged with problems for the next two weeks. If you don't want your phone to automatically update at night, but you accidentally clicked on “update later,” you can just shut your phone off or put it in airplane mode each night until you are ready to install.

And if you are one of the lucky owners of an iPhone 6, SE or iPad mini? You can skip the updates from here on, but you may be putting your security at risk. Instead, I'd say wait at least two or three weeks and let the dust settle before you dive in to the update. By then you will at least know what problems to expect. Maybe they won't even affect your own phone habits as much as the critics are predicting.

What if you have a phone other than an iPhone?

     To see if your Samsung Galaxy phone needs updating click here.

     For Google Pixel phone updates, click here

For other types, refer to the website of your brand of phone.

Let me know if you’ve got any questions or comments about updating.

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A Guided Meditation on Gratitude

Enjoy this ten-minute guided meditation on gratitude.
Just get comfortable, relax and listen to the soothing voice as you are guided toward a true appreciation of the blessings within. Enriched by the soft musical soundscapes of Rebecca Reads Recordings.

Please do not listen to while driving or similar activities.

Three Myths of Meditation

Today in episode 9 we’ll bust the three myths of meditation and I’ll share my three favorite types. I also reveal what kind of meditation is the very best for your health. Plus, stick around because there is a bonus for you at the end!

00:01:10 Can you think of one person that has such a deep peace in their spirit that you feel calmer just by being around them? Finding that level of peace is something I’ve been working on lately. I've always thought one of the best things we can do for our friends and family during a time of stress is to have our own reservoir of inner calm, ready to share with others. If you’ve been interested in meditation but you have some questions, then its time to find out what’s keeping you from having this peace in your life. 

00:02:35 Myth #1 It’s not going to work for me. There are many types of meditation out there; it's important to find one that syncs with you and your background. The best meditation is the one that you want to come back to, day after day. Just remember: Don’t Give Up. Everyone’s mind wanders during meditation, but if you bring your focus back to your breathing and keep moving on, you’ll see the results over time. 

00:03:53 Myth #2 There’s no time; there’s no place. Meditation isn’t defined by a place, a pose or a practice. It can be as simple as just focusing on having a steady, slow breath for a few moments in the middle of a hectic day. There are many ways to gain this peace and calmness in your life, but my favorites have always been these three: walking meditation, controlled breathing and scripture meditation. If you would be interested in finding out more about my podcast on scripture meditation, you can go to restingintheword.org.

00:06:50 Breathe in… breathe out. Try a sample of controlled breathing and feel the difference it can make!

00:08:17 My other podcast is a guided scripture meditation to aid in sleep. You can find it at restingintheword.org

00:08:43 Myth #3 You can’t prove it works. Yes, scientific studies have proven that meditation does work to reduce anxiety and depression, heart disease, diabetes, improve sleep and your immune system. Want the facts? Here's the scientific research you need!

00:10:30 Gratitude meditation may be the best meditation to have all the health benefits like focusing your mind, calming your spirit, and thinking more clearly. 

Gratitude is the world’s healthiest human emotion. It increases your immunity to sickness

~Pastor Rick Warren

Bonus! For your free, uplifting gratitude meditation click here.


Tiny Victories Keep the Dream Alive

Positively Life After Fifty had a tiny victory today and I just had to write about it to celebrate! This is the site I built in the summer of 2013 when I began a podcast with the same name. I thought it would be easy; buy the website name, build the site, and get started podcasting. Boom. Done.

(Pssst…scroll down to jump ahead to the tiny victory.)

But then life hit. Boom. Hard. I went back to work teaching…a very stressful year.
Then I got sick, couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, really stressed. Yet my students all needed my help, as did my own family. Not many victories, but hugs from the kids sure helped.  

My job took a turn again for the worse. I loved the kids, but the pressure, along with the insomnia, was crushing my spirit. I began to rethink what was most important in life, and put in for early retirement.

Acknowledge all of your small victories. They will eventually add up to something great. 

Kara Goucher

Meanwhile my podcast equipment was STILL gathering dust in the corner of the living room, and my website was in a sad state of atrophy. 2013 turned into '14, ’15 and even '16. I began to think my dream was going to sadly fade away like Christmas poinsettias in January.

Maybe when I retire, I thought, I can revive this dream of having a thriving website and podcast. Or… maybe I should just let it go. I seriously thought about giving up, I didn't think it mattered to anyone. But I couldn't.

Have you ever had a hard time letting go of your dreams? That's surely normal. After all, we've nurtured some dreams for a lifetime and invested in them with our hopes and plans. They’re like our children. No? Okay, well, at least they're like our favorite pets. We don't want to give up, but life happens and before you know it:  Boom. Done. No more dream. I was close to giving up. After retirement, I was too busy to focus on the website, write or produce a podcast. But I now realize that just as many tiny victories adds up to something great, so can many small coincidences lead us back to the path to those lost dreams. Small coincidences like a comment a friend made, that got you believing in yourself again. Or finally reading that book you've been putting off for so long, (for me it was FINISH by Jon Acuff. Wow!) Or even getting enough sleep, so you have a brain that actually works again. Small, unrelated coincidences have a way of helping us get back on the right path, the path that leads to revived dreams.

 Small, unrelated coincidences have a way of helping us get back on the right path, the path that leads to revived dreams.

Positively Life After Fifty

So what's my tiny victory today? It's that little lock in the browser bar at the top of your screen. Seems like a small victory, but not for me.

You see, as I'm rebuilding this old website, one problem has eluded me. Security. No more! TODAY, with the help of an online tech guy who replaced some missing code, I FINALLY got my “lock” along with the “s” in the “https://” in my web address! You can now visit my site without getting that scary message, “This website is not secure!”

And best of all? YOU are now safe to sign up for my newsletter and get updates and all the great freebies that I will be making in the future. (Your name and email address will be safe, never shared.) You can sign up right now, on this page. I look forward to hearing from you!

Here's hoping you can celebrate a tiny victory, or two, of your own this week and move one step closer to your dreams!